You're madly in love with a married man and have been for a long time. He's unhappy at home and needed someone to talk to - you fell right into that category. Within no time he visited your bed, VictoriaHearts.com called late at night, dropped by to see you because he was in the neighborhood.
He has finally made up his mind to
divorce.
These past months have been so much
fun - you laugh together, have so much in common, and now he's leaving his
marriage. You are ready for your rewards - him, a steady and comfortable life,
and you will finally be able to meet his family and friends. Life is good!
And all of this might work out just
as you've dreamed for so long. However....
Have you ever considered that you
may be his "transition woman" - a lover who weak men turn to for sex,
moral support, and tender loving care while gaining the strength and conviction
to wean themselves LatinFeels.com review away from a strong-willed wife and a
dysfunctional marriage.
Once he has stabilized while using
you as his sounding board and gotten stronger in the meantime, he will leave
his marriage and spend a lot of time with you, for a while. Secretly, he has
made plans to move on.
If he leaves his marriage and truly
loves you, he will be proud to introduce you to his children, his mother, and
most of his friends. If he leaves his marriage and you are still his secret,
you need to make plans of your own to move on.
He is biding his time, waiting for
the best time to show up and announce, "we should talk". This will be
hard for him and devastating for you (who has been patiently waiting for him to
commit to you). YourLoveMeet Promising
to always be there for you, professing his affection, and asking you to be
patient a while longer, he is letting you down easy. "I'm just not ready
to remarry yet. You have been so wonderful, and it's not fair of me to ask, but
just give me a little more time."
Sex between you will be better than
ever, for a few months, then he'll stop by less and less, you'll be miserable
wondering where he is because he won't be answering his cell phone every time
you call as he did in the past. You gave him your all - love, sex, time when
ever he needed you and instead of being elated, you feel terrible,
disillusioned, angry, and let's face it, scared.
In the depths of your heart, you
know that he's taken this opportunity to survey the playing field of younger,
less motherly contenders for his next trip down the aisle. These young women
haven't been around through his transition period and they will accept him
without giving anything or anybody a second thought.
Bright-red flags warning of an
affair that has run its course are sending you messages you can no longer
ignore. You have become addicted to him and his needs but now it's time to take
care of your needs. Find someone qualified to help you get past your
involvement with a man who is emotionally unable to meet your needs. Discuss
your feelings, not his. Accept that it's over.
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